Blog / On Forced Feminization
Tuesday, 3 June 2008 at 15:32
The idea of feminizing a man by force is widespread and obviously holds a certain amount of fascination for some people. An internet search on subjects such as "sissy", "female superiority", or "feminization" will lead to many links that relate to this subject. I would like to examine this idea in more detail.
Stories of this type involve a woman forcing a man, usually her husband, through a process of feminization on an involuntary basis. This is often begun using blackmail and the initial evidence is something like pictures of the man wearing panties or other female clothing. This "evidence" is often obtained by tricking the man or by "catching" him dressed up.
This evidence and the threat of exposure gives the woman power over her victim. This enables her to coerce him further into feminization which is also documented, giving her ever more leverage to demand higher levels of feminization... and so on. This continues to some ultimate level such as the former man being a completely feminized transvestite, or even to the point of gender reassignment.
In these stories, a wife may do this as revenge for some misbehavior on her husband's part, such as an extra-marital affair. On occasion, the woman will team up with another person, usually an extra-marital lover, to feminize a man in order to "get him out of the way".
And then there is the "woman as good guy" scenario, where she forces the man into feminization "for his own good" or to "teach him a lesson". In this scenario, the victim is generally a man with some sort of bad attitude or behavior towards women: belittling, condescending, or abusive. He is taught his lesson by being forced into the very role upon which he formally cast derision.
A common feature of this type of story is feminization used as punishment and to humiliate the victim. A man is punished by the loss of his masculinity and being forced into humiliating femininity. In stories where the feminization is taken to the point of his being forced to become a transsexual woman, it is portrayed as the ultimate in humiliation and punishment.
Miss Barbara and Miss Carolyn (both veteran feminizers) tell me the same thing regarding forced feminization: it is very rare if it actually exists at all. Miss Carolyn says that, even if it does exist, it has no place in the legitimate female superiority movement. Furthermore, she strenuously objects to the very idea of feminization as punishment or humiliation.
The idea of feminization as punishment implies that femininity is humiliating, the further implication being that femininity is inferior to masculinity, which is exactly opposite of the view of the female superiority movement. The greatest benefit of (non-forced) feminization is that it rids males of this deeply ingrained attitude. How could this happen if femininity is viewed as humiliating? Thus, the very idea of feminization as humiliation is opposed to everything for which the female superiority movement stands.
Being a sissy in the female superiority movement is completely voluntary. True, the progress and extent of feminization is directed and controlled by the sissy's Mistress, but it should be understood that this is in no way "forced" feminization. The sissy agrees to follow her Mistress's rules and carry out all assignments and requests (with a few exceptions). She agrees to be subject to her Mistress's discipline, and to the nature of that discipline. She even agrees upon what constitutes misbehavior. There is nothing "forced" about the sissy's feminization.
So, where does the idea of forced feminization originate? Well, I must admit that it is a compelling notion. I myself have written several pieces of fiction in which forced feminization plays a large role. The idea of a woman forcefully taking control of a man and then taking away everything that makes him a man is very powerful.
I think that on some level this is something for which many men secretly long. Forced feminization may be the fantasy of socially powerful men who secretly want to be relieved of day-to-day pressures and responsibilities. It is also likely to be the wish of frustrated sissies who dream of expressing their feminine selves but cannot because of family or social reasons. There is no shortage of reasons for a man to fantasize about losing control of his life to a woman. It is very stressful to be a man in todays society.
In my opinion, most if not all of the forced feminization fantasies that are found are created by males. There may be a few forced feminization revenge fantasies created by women, but I am thinking that there are not many. Indeed, if a woman wants to feminize a male, there are many of them around that would be happy to be feminized, no force necessary!