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Sunday, 5 July 2009 at 16:23

Honoring the men…

Maybe some men would love this specific post of mine, but maybe some wouldn’t, well, I cant care less, for to me, this is a very honest piece of writing, that I dedicated for all men out there.

Few days ago, I spend time watching couple of movies, namely the 300 and “Men of honour”. Actually this is not the 1st time I watch this 2 movies, but I always have the same admiration towards both King Leonidas and Chief Carl Brashear.

I really adores both man. No, not because King Leonidas have that marvelous 6 pack abs or because Brashear AKA Cuba Gooding Jr is a sweet looking chocolate man. But because of the manly persona and character that this both great actor portrayed in both this movies.

I know, most of the time I do sounds like another super perfect- don’t mess with me- feminist, but hey, like I always said, don’t judge a book by its cover. As funny as it may sound, I do look up to man. And had always believe that a man’s position should always be a level better or higher than their woman. But then again, I also believe that such stature is not one’s birth right, I believe it is something that one’s need to earn.

Definition of a man to me are deliberately vigorous. I think, I’ve read enough books, heard enough life stories, spoken and mingle with enough male species, to allow me to define the things, the criteria, the sign, the behavior of a real man.

I think in comparison to woman, man makes a great leader, but as a leader, a great man not just lead and gives order and commands, they also listen, they understand and they as well tolerate. A great man are not afraid to identify his match, not just in other man, but woman too. A real man, to me, is not afraid to stand up. To stand up for what he believes, for what he thinks is right based on his wise mental & emotional judgment, even thou if it would meant that half of the population is against him. To stand up and protects, not to stand up and attack,

He’s not afraid either to stand up and admit his mistake when the occasion arrives and above all, not afraid to stand up for the one that he loves and cares. And real man too, not afraid to be honest, towards himself and to others. To speak of the truth even thou it hurts. Honest to his own life principle.

And I believes great man makes a great educators too, the type who did not only read books or tells stories, but the ones who set up examples to others. The one who not just talks, but he walks the talks too. The type of educator who not only educate others but educate himself too. And definitely great man makes a great lovers too, not just to his better half, but towards other people, other creatures. His muscular arm, not just offers the safety and security, but also exhibits his tenderness, the warmth of his touch, the tender of his feeling.

I would love to go on and on...about praising a real man, based on my definition...but i really have to go...the tour guide is waiting. This is a product from someone who woke up at 4 in the morning.