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Men Are Hard To Please

girlzadidas81 — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 03:19:09 UT

The problems with GUYS:

If u TREAT him nicely, he says u are IN LOVE with him;
If u Don't, he says u are PROUD.
If u DRESS Nicely, he says u are trying to LURE him;
If u Don't, he says u are from KAMPUNG.
If u ARGUE with him, he says u are STUBBORN;
If u keep QUIET, he says u have no BRAINS.
If u are SMARTER than him, he'll lose FACE;
If he's Smarter than u, he is GREAT.
If u don't Love him, he tries to POSSESS u;
If u Love him, he will try to LEAVE u.(very true huh
If u don't make love with him., he says u don't Love him;
If u do!! he says u are CHEAP.
If u tell him your PROBLEM, he says u are TROUBLESOME;
If u don't, he says that u don't TRUST him.
If u SCOLD him, u are like a NANNY to him;
If he SCOLDS u, it is because he CARES for u.
If u BREAK your PROMISE, u Cannot be TRUSTED;
If he BREAKS his, he is FORCED to do so
If u SMOKE, u are BAD girl;
If he SMOKES, he is GENTLEMENT.
If u do WELL in your exams, he says it's LUCK;
If he does WELL, it's BRAINS.
If u HURT him, u are CRUEL;
If he HURTS u, u are too SENSITIVE!!

THIS OLD THING CALLED LOVE

girlzadidas81 — Tue, 01 Jul 2008 06:17:01 UT

PENULISAN TERBAIK YANG SAYA PERNAH BACA...!!! BEST GILE..!!!

THIS OLD THING CALLED LOVE

Dua jiwa dua wajah, bertemu dan saling jatuh cinta (atau dia orang RASA yang dia orang jatuh cinta). Jatuh cinta terhempap terduduk nih sebenarnya ada banyak sebab... rupa, harta, nak pass on zuriat, seks, obsession, gila nikah, dsb. Memang banyak sebabnya kalau ditanya. Tak kurang juga yang mengatakan bahawa "misteri cinta... hanya Tuhan saja yang tahu sebabnya"...

Lepas tu mulalah bermadah, berseloka berjiwang, pijak semut tak mati, mandi tak basah sebab tak siram betul-betul, tidur tak lena sebab nyamuk banyak, dsb.

Nih saya bercakap dari pengalaman (refer HDLN VIII)...

ALL THE WRONG REASONS

Bagi saya, jika sesuatu pasangan "jatuh cinta" dan berhasrat untuk bersatu secara sah DENGAN SEBAB YANG SALAH (all the wrong reasons).. be it for looks, wealth, sex, etc.... apabila tiba satu insiden yang 'menghilangkan' kualiti sedemikian pada pasangan tersebut, maka yang satu lagi akan mula berubah hati.

Contohnya, Abu kawin dengan Minah sebab utamanya kerana Minah nih sekali pandang macam Maya Karin dan Abu ni pulak memang terkenal dengan kejantanannya. Apa jadi jika ditakdirkan satu hari nanti Minah berubah rupa dan bentuk seperti belakang bontot bas dan Abu terpaksa melawat mereka yang memberi khidmat "Khusus Untuk Lelaki" but to no avail?

Jadi yang paling penting ialah NAWAITU.... and the safest, the best Nawaitu in my opinion is loving/marrying someone "kerana Allah"..

Other than that, it's because of the person he/she REALLY is and NOT the person you WANT him/her to be...get that right, first of all...

KEBEBASAN YANG DIBELENGGU

Satu lagi alasan ialah kerana "menginginkan teman hidup yang seiring sejalan, memahami dan sentiasa bersama". Pada pendapat saya, dalam setiap perkahwinan, kedua-dua pasangan perlu tahu membawa diri. Perlu ada satu ruang "kebebasan" dalam setiap pasangan yang mana pasangan yang lain tidak boleh campur.

Kebebasan ini bukanlah kebebasan untuk "main kayu tiga", atau macam Bill Gates yang buat rule supaya isterinya membenarkan beliau bersama dengan bekas kekasihnya sekali dalam setahun. Kebebasan yang saya maksudkan ialah "room to move". Ruang untuk masing-masing berdiri sebagai individu.

Ini memandangkan bahawa batiniah manusia secara umumnya, TAK BOLEH DIBELENGGU SEPENUHNYA. Kalau dibelenggu teruk, jiwa akan memberontak dan akan mula melakukan perkara yang tak sepatutnya dilakukan. Kalau dibelenggu teruk, pasangan kita akan mula muak dan mencari jalan untuk membebaskan diri Dari belenggu tersebut.

THERE ARE NO MR/MS PERFECT

Dari remaja -- terutama bila menonton filem Hindustan, dengar lagu cintan, minat celebriti ini itu, baca Mills and Boon, dsb -- kita telah membentuk satu imej yang kita anggap sebagai 'Mr/Ms Perfect" yang kita inginkan dalam hidup. Kadangkala kita jatuh cinta dengan "cinta" itu sendiri dan bukan pada orangnya.

Bila kita bertemu seseorang yang menepati gambaran "Mr/Ms Perfect" kita tuh, kita mulalah angau. Terutamanya kalau cinta berbalas. Kemudian, mungkin dengan tak berfikir panjang kita terus berhasrat untuk bersatu.

Namun selepas berkahwin, lepas masuk dan bangun tidur di sebelah muka/bau yang sama day in day out, mungkin kita akan terdetik bahwa "dia ni bukan macam yang aku bayang dulu". Mereka yang beranggapan begini adalah mereka yang tak dapat menerima hakikat bahawa beliau sebenarnya TIDAK MENYINTAI PASANGANNYA.

Bagi saya, kalau benar-benar cinta, you'll accept your partner as he/she is. Menerima kekurangan dan kelebihannya. Menerima kebaikan dan keburukannya. And above all, remain true to each other. Realiti adalah jauh bezanya dari fantasi. Jangan banyak sangat merewang tak berpijak di bumi nyata. Kelak bila jatuh merudum kena pakai plaster satu badan...

Lebih memudaratkan kalau salah seorang pasangan tadi bertemu orang lain yang KONONNYA menepati gambaran "Mr/Ms Perfect" tadi. And the vicious circle began all over again...fall in love, buat affair, kawin and lastly terdetik sekali lagi bahwa "dia ni bukan macam yang aku baying dulu".

We have to BREAK AWAY from the circle.

EVERYONE LIKE SURPRISES

Sebelum saya kahwin dulu, Pak Long saya ada beri nasihat --- "masa kawin, Asrul cuma akan tahu 30% dari Nani (orang rumah sayer sekarang). Yang 70% lagi hanya boleh diketahui lepas berkahwin dan ianya bergantung pada camner Asrul sendiri membentuk isteri".

Err...I am STILL discovering, Pak Long!!!

Mungkin perlu ditinggalkan sedikit "misteri" untuk pasangan kita "discover" dari masa ke semasa. To me, the key to a successful marriage (besides trust and love), ialah surprises and sponteniety. Just when you thought that it's time for you to visit the marriage lawyer or mahkamah syariah, your partner will come up with something new that makes you fall in love with him/her all over again.

Hakikatnya ialah kerana lelaki dan wanita dijadikan Tuhan sebagai 2 species yang berbeza, terutamanya dari segi batiniah dan mainan perasaan. Bila tiada lagi yang 'misteri', mungkin itulah permulaan masing-masing 'berubah hati' terutama jika sebab sebenar mereka berkahwin pada awalnya tadi sememangnya salah.

TAKDER ZURIAT

Berbalik semula pada "There Are No Mr/Ms Perfect". Jika setelah anda berkahwin dan mendapati bahawa pasangan tak boleh me"realisasikan anak", ini BUKANLAH alasan untuk kawin lain. Sebabnya isteri bukanlah kilang anak macam Texas Instrument atau Harris. Saya bersimpati dengan mereka yang berkahwin SEMATA-MATA KERANA ZURIAT.

Why...again, berkahwin "for the wrong reasons". Sebabnya kalau setakat nak buat anak, lebih baik merayau kat red light area di Bukit Bintang atau Lrg Hj Taib, rescue mana-mana pelacur kat situ (dapat juga pahala) dan terus ajak kawin. Atau cari mana-mana pendatang asing yang nakkan kerakyatan. Tak perlu ada cinta...yer la...nak anak sajer, kan??

Accept the fact that anak itu adalah anugerah Tuhan. Anak adalah "life" dan hanya Tuhan yang boleh memberikan nyawa. Kalau Tuhan tak kasi, mungkin perlu tanyakan pada diri kita adakah kita benar-benar bersedia untuk mempunyai anak. Again, Qada and Qadar play their roles here.

Kalau tak leh dapat anak, cari anak angkat. Kalau pegi lawat kat Rumah Kebajikan Masih banyak anak yatim piatu yang dahagakan kasih ibubapa. Take them in and make someone happy. Zuriat zahiriah yang berasal dari kromosom kita bagi saya adalah artificial.

Hakikatnya setiap bayi dilahirkan seperti kain putih...ibubapa yang akan mencorakkannya menjadi Islam, Yahudi atau Nasrani. Anak 'sendiri' pun, kalau tak tahu jaga dan diberi didikan yang betul, nanti bila anak kita ditangkap kerana mengedar dadah atau berbuat honar --- tak nak mengaku keturunan lak...; "hang habag nama hang tapi jangan habag hang bin/binti sapa..ok??"

KESIMPULANNYA

Bagi saya, sebelum berkahwin, kita perlu cuba membayangkan "boleh tak aku stick with him/her WALAU APA PUN TERJADI??". Cuba bayangkan scenario kalau-kalau tak leh dapat anak, kalau pasangan berubah bentuk jadi macam bontot bas dan cuba minta housemate/family pasangan anda ambik gambarnya waktu beliau baru bangun tidur. Tengok gambar tu betul-betul. Siti Nurhaliza bangun tidur pun muka macam hantu.

Kalau anda boleh terima hakikat bahawa inilah rupa orang yang akan bangun tidur bersama anda sampai hari salah seorang dari anda dipanggil ke pangkuan Ilahi, then proceed. Kalau tak...maknanya you're not ready for other 'shocking' surprises that your partner will be disclosing in due time after marriage...

Cubalah buang jauh-jauh imej "Mr/Ms Perfect" yang kita ada. At least kalau pasangan kita menepati 60% dari imej tuh pun dah cukup bagus. Memang perlu ada satu 'standard' yang ditetapkan secara individu dalam mencari pasangan, tapi janganlah terlalu 'taksub' dengan imej tersebut. Kalau masih lagi nak berpegang teguh pada imej perfect nih, then do yourself a favour and learn about Artificial Intelligence...he...he...

Hmm...dan akhir sekali, jodoh dan pertemuan di tangan Tuhan. Kalau dah memang 'tertulis' tuh, ader lah...kalau dah takder tu, takderlah....Kita cuma perlu berusaha...Tuhan yang menentukan segalanya.

Itulah sajer kot....kalau panjang sangat nanti boring pulak"

Tak perlu mencari teman secantik BALQIS,
Jika diri tak seindah SULAIMAN,
Mengapa mengharap teman setampan YUSUF,
Jika kasih tak setulus ZULAIKHA,
Tak perlu diri menjadi seteguh IBRAHIM,
Jika tak sekuat SARAH,
Mengapa didamba teman hidup seistimewa KHADIJAH,
Jika diri tak sesempurna RASULULLAH S.A.W

I'm Yours- Jason Mraz

girlzadidas81 — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 09:23:01 UT

this is one of my feverot song at this moment...

Well, you done done me and you bet I felt it
I tried to be chill but your so hot that I melted
I fell right through the cracks, and I'm tryin to get back
before the cool done run out I'll be givin it my best test
and nothin's gonna stop me but divine intervention
I reckon it's again my turn to win some or learn some

But I won't hesitate no more,
no more, it cannot wait I'm yours

Well open up your mind and see like me
open up your plans and damn you're free
look into your heart and you'll find love love love love
listen to the music of the moment people dance and sing
We're just one big family
And it's our god forsaken right to be loved loved loved loved Loved

So, i won't hesitate no more,
no more, it cannot wait i'm sure
there's no need to complicate our time is short
this is our fate, i'm yours

*scat*

I've been spendin' way too long checkin' my tongue in the mirror
and bendin' over backwards just to try to see it clearer
But my breath fogged up the glass
and so I drew a new face and I laughed
I guess what I'd be sayin' is there ain't no better reason
to rid yourself of vanity and just go with the seasons
it's what we aim to do
our name is our virtue

But I won't hesitate no more, no more
it cannot wait, I'm yours

Well open up your mind and see like me
open up your plans and damn you're free
look into your heart and you will find that the sky is yours

so please don't, please don't, please don't,
there's no need to complicate,
Cause our time is short
This, this, this is our fate,
I'm yours

Bittersweet- Capital E

girlzadidas81 — Fri, 11 Jan 2008 00:52:46 UT

When I’m crying
you laughing
you think that it has all been decided
but it’s all coming back to you...
You never realize
you think it’s alright

you say I can't swim
but your drowning
you think that it’s all is been decided
but you still hiding in ur shoes

you never try to walk

you think it’s alright
cause the days are coming early
the sun is shining clearly
we need a ride to travel fast
just don't deny
break the ice

and the world’s becoming lonely
when pride just can't be a print
I can't decide
You say I can't swim
but your drowning
you think that it’s all is been decided
but you still hiding in ur shoes

you never try to walk
you think it’s alright
Cause the days are coming early
the sun is shining clearly
we need a ride
to travel fast
just don't deny

break the ice and the world’s becoming lonely
when pride just can't be a print
I can't decide
Cause the days are coming early
the sun is shining clearly
we need a ride
to travel fast

just don't deny
break the ice
and the world’s becoming lonely
when pride just can't be a print
I can't decide

pak pandir buat report

girlzadidas81 — Thu, 27 Dec 2007 00:40:41 UT

Pak pandir: Selamat pagi tuan

Polis: Selamat pagi...apa boleh saya bantu?

Pak pandir: Saya nak buat report tuan..

Polis: Pasal apa tu encik?

Pak pandir: Pasal kawan saya di baham harimau...

Polis: Pukul berapa

Pak pandir: Tak sempat pukul tuan...harimau dah ngap dulu..

Polis: ?? habis?..

Pak pandir: Tak habis tuan..kepala kawan masih ada lagi

When I'm gone

girlzadidas81 — Tue, 04 Dec 2007 08:25:46 UT

SIMPLE PLAN - When I'm Gone Lyrics

I look around me
But all I seem to see
Its people going nowhere
Expecting sympathy
It's like we're going through the emotions
Of the scripted destiny
Tell me where?s our inspiration
If life won't wait
I guess it's up to me

Whoahh
No we're not gonna waste another moment in this town
Whoahh
We wont come back, the world its coming out
Whoahh
Leave the past in the past gonna find the future
And misery loves company
Well so long
You'll miss me when I'm gone
You're gonna miss me when I'm gone

Procrastination running circles in my head
While you sit there contemplating you?ll wind up left for dead (left for dead)
Life it?s what happens
While you're busy making your excuses
Another day, another casualty
But that won?t happen to me

Whoahh
No we?re not gonna waste another moment in this town
Whoahh
We wont come back, the world its coming out

Whoahh
Leave the past in the past gonna find the future
And misery loves company
Well so long
You'll miss me when I'm gone
You're gonna miss me when I'm gone
You're gonna miss me when I'm goooone
When I'm gooone

Let's go'!
Won't look back
When I say goodbye
We're gonna leave this world behind me
Gonna take what's mine tonight
cause every wasted day
Becomes a wasted chance
You're gonna wake up feeling sorry
cause life won?t wait
I guess it's up to you

Whoahh
No we're not gonna waste another moment in this town
Whoahh
We wont come back, the world its coming out
Whoahh
Leave the past in the past gonna find the future
And misery loves company
Well so long
You'll miss me when I?m gone
You're gonna miss me when I'm gone
You're gonna miss me when I'm gone
You're gonna miss me when I'm gone
You're gonna miss me when I'm gone

mari kta nayanyi....

All at Once

girlzadidas81 — Thu, 04 Oct 2007 08:58:51 UT

The fray
All at once

There are certain people you just keep coming back to
She is right in front of you
You begin to wonder could you find a better one
Compared to her now she's in question
And all at once the crowd begins to sing
Sometimes the hardest thing and the right thing are the same
Maybe you want her maybe you need her
Maybe you started to compare to someone not there
Looking for the right one you line up the world to find
Where no questions cross your mind
But she won't keep on waiting for you without a doubt
Much longer for you to sort it out
And all at once the crowd begins to sing
Sometimes the hardest thing and the right thing are the same
Maybe you want her maybe you need her
Maybe you started to compare to someone not there
Maybe you want it maybe you need it,
Maybe it's all you're running from,
Perfection will not come
And all at once the crowd begins to sing
Sometimes
We'd never know what's wrong without the pain
Sometimes the hardest thing and the right thing are the same
Maybe you want her maybe you need her
Maybe you've started to compare to someone not there
Maybe you want it maybe you need it
Maybe it's all you're running from
Perfection will not come
Maybe you want her maybe you need her
Maybe you had her maybe you lost her to another
To another

Clumsy-Fergie

girlzadidas81 — Thu, 04 Oct 2007 08:51:33 UT

Artist: Fergie
Album: The Dutchess
Title: Clumsy

Can't help it
The girl can't help it [repeat 3x]

First time
That I saw your eyes
Boy you looked right through me, mmmhmm
Play it cool
But I knew you knew
That cupid hit me, mmm mmm

You got me trippin, stumbling, flippin, fumbling
Clumsy cuz I'm fallin in love
You got me slippin, tumbling, sinking, fumbling
Clumsy cuz I'm fallin in love
So in love with you

Can't help it
The girl can't help it [repeat 3x]

Can't breath
When you touch me, see
Butterflies so crazy, mmm mmm
Whoa now, think I'm goin down
Friends don't know whats with me, mmm mmm

You got me trippin, stumbling, flippin, fumbling
Clumsy cuz I'm fallin in love
You got me slippin, tumbling, sinking, fumbling
Clumsy cuz I'm fallin in love
So in love with you

Can't help it
The girl can't help it [repeat 3x]

You know, this isn't the first time this has happened to me
This love sick thing
I like serious relationships and a
A girl like me dont stay single for long
Cuz everytime a boyfriend and I break up
My world is crushed and I'm all alone
The love bug crawls right back up and bites me and I'm back

Can't help it
The girl can't help it [repeat 3x]

You got me trippin, stumbling, flippin, fumbling
Clumsy cuz I'm fallin in love
You got me slippin, tumbling, sinking, fumbling
Clumsy cuz I'm fallin in love
So in love with you

So in love with you
So in love with you

Kisah Anak Tak Dibenarkan Pakai Jilbab

girlzadidas81 — Mon, 01 Oct 2007 01:17:51 UT

Wednesday, 13 Sept 2007
Kisah tentang larangan jilbab bagi anak muda dari seorang ibu..

Seorang pemuda baru saja baru sahaja pulang ke rumah. Ia sendirian di biliknya melepas lelah sambil menatap langit yang membiru.

Kesibukan menyelenggarakan ceramah keislaman di masjid betul2 meletihkan.

Suasana hening dan damai kerana di flat kediamannya kerana ramai penghuni masih belum balik dari kerja.

Dari balik dinding sayup-sayup terdengar perbualan jirannya seorang Ibu tua dengan anaknya.

Anak : Ibu..

Ibu : Hmmm ?

Anak : BU !

Ibu : APA ?

Anak : Mmm, anu ... tadi saya ke masjid dengar ceramah.. Ibu dengarlah ni !

Ibu : IYA ! Ibu dengar. Cakap ajalah. Kan ibu tengah sibuk memasukkan benang ke jarum ni. Susah pulak rasanya.Agaknya mata ibu sudah nak rabun...

Anak : Bu !

Ibu : Apa dia ? cakap ajelah, Yang ?

Anak : Tadi, di masjid seorang ustaz bercerita soal jilbab. Katanya pakai jilbab itu wajib. Ibu, mulai sekarang saya mau pakai jilbab. Boleh tak Bu..?

Ibu : Jangan ...

Pemuda dari balik dinding makin menajamkan perhatian pendengarannya.

Anak : Tapi tu perintah Allah. Kalau tidak patuh kita berdosa, Bu.Boleh ya, saya mau pakai jilbab ?

Ibu : Kan ibu kata JANGAN ...

Anak : Tapi bu.. bukan lebih baik saya memakai jilbab kerana kerana kita orang Islam dan sudah tentu dapat menjaga maruah dan harga diri saya.. betul tak bu...? Bolehlah bu..

Ibu : TIDAK !

Anak : Kenapa ? Atau ibu terpengaruh sama cerita bohong pasal memakai jilbab? Kata Ustaz, jilbab itu bukan budaya Arab. Itu Syariat Islam. Islam yang sebenar bukan adat. Dari dulu memang diwajibkan demikian, bukan trend baru-baru ini aja.

Ibu : Iya, iya Ibu faham tu. Tapi ibu kata JANGAN !

Anak : Jadi Ibu melarang saya nih... Bu, mau tak mau saya tetap akan pakai jilbab. Terserah Ibu nak kata apa. Tak perlu taat pada orang tua, kalau orang tua itu menyuruh maksiat pada perintah Allah.

Ibu : Kamu tak faham-faham lagi ke?. Ibu kata jangan, jangan, JANGAN !!!

Anak : WALAU APAPUN JADI BESOK SAYA TETAP PAKAI JILBAB. MUKTAMAD!

Ibu : JANGAN !

Anak : JILBAB !

Ibu : JANGAN !

Anak : JILBAB !!

Ibu : J A N G A N !!!

Anak : J I L B A A A A A A B !!!!

Pemuda tadi sudah tidak dapat menahan keinginannya. Ia terus keluar bilik untuk bertemu ibu dan anak itu untuk membela si anak agar si ibu bersetuju dengan kemahuan si anak. Tangannya sudah terangkat di depan pintu untuk mengetuk ....namun terdengar lagi kata-kata dari si ibu ...

Ibu : KAMU NI BUDIN, IBU KATA JANGAN.. JANGANLAH! KAMU KAN LAKI-LAKI... ..

Pemuda, Si jiran sebelah pun berlalu ..dengan langkah yang longlai

(hehehe, serius tul baca nampak )

Nak Kekal Dalam Bercinta

girlzadidas81 — Tue, 25 Sep 2007 01:15:55 UT

Anda mungkin tidak mempercayainya, tapi merupakan nasihat yang baikuntukdibaca!Anda mungkin mempelajari sesuatu jika membacanya!!!

PERTAMA.
Bersedekahlah kepada orang lain lebih daripada yang mereka perlukan danlakukanlah dengan penuh kerelaan.

KEDUA.
Kahwinilah lelaki / wanita yang gemar anda berbicara dengannya, keranakemahiran berbicara antara satu dengan lain akan menjadi lebih pentingpabila usia semakin tua.

KETIGA.
Usahlah mempercayai segala perkara yang anda dengari. Berbelanjalah sekadarapa yang ada atau tidurlah seberapa lama yang anda perlu

KEEMPAT.
Apabila kamu berkata, " Aku Cinta Padamu", maka tunaikanlah.

KELIMA.
Pabila mengatakan, "Maaf", tenunglah matanya.

KEENAM.
Bertunanglah sekurang-kurangnya enam bulan sebelum kamu diijabkabulkan.

KETUJUH.
Percayailah cinta pandang pertama.

KELAPAN.
Usah tertawakan impian orang lain. Manusia tanpa impian tidak memilikiapa-apa.

KESEMBILAN.
Cintailah seseorang dengan sepenuh hati dan penuh kasih sayang.Sungguhpun anda akan berasa seolah-olah diri anda tersiksa, tapi percayalah itulah satu-satunya untuk melengkapkan kehidupan ini.

KESEPULUH.
Jika berlaku perselisihan pendapat, bertengkarlah secara aman. Usahlah menyebut nama sesiapa ketika bertengkar.

KESEBELAS.
Usahlah menilai seseorang berdasarkan peribadi keluarga mereka.

KEDUABELAS.
Berbicaralah dengan tenang dan berfikirlah dengan pantas.

KETIGABELAS.
Apabila seseorang bertanyakan satu soalan yang tidak anda gemari,lontarkanlah senyuman dan bertanyalah padanya,"Kenapa anda ingin tahu?"

KEEMPATBELAS.
Ingatlah bahawa setiap cinta dan pencapaian yang besar akan melibatkan pengorbanan dan risiko yang besar.

KELIMABELAS.
Ucaplah "Semoga anda
diberkati" apabila mendengar seseorang bersin.

KEENAMBELAS.
Apabila anda kerugian, janganlah jadi kurang ajar.
KETUJUHBELAS.
Berpeganglah kepada tiga R:
1. Rasa hormat pada diri sendiri;
2. Rasa hormat kepada orang lain;
3. Rasa tanggungjawab terhadap semua tindakan anda

KELAPANBELAS.
Usahlah benarkan pertikaian yang sebesar hama merosakkan sebuahpersahabatanyang besar.

KESEMBILANBELAS. Apabila menyedari bahawa anda telah melakukan kesalahan, usahlahberlengahuntuk perbetulkan kesalahan itu.
KEDUAPULUH.
Tersenyumlah ketika menjawab telefon. Pemanggil akan melihatnya daripadasuara yang mereka dengar.

KEDUAPULUH SATU
Ada ketikanya anda perlu bersendirian.

9 WORDS WOMEN USE

girlzadidas81 — Mon, 24 Sep 2007 01:50:59 UT

1. Fine: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.

2. Five Minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.

3. Nothing: This is the calm before the storm.. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.

4. Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!

5. Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to #3 for the meaning of nothing.)

6. That's Okay: This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

7. Thanks: A woman is thanking you, do not question, or Faint. Just say you're welcome.

8. Whatever: Is a women's way of sayin F@!K YOU!

9. Don't worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking "What's wrong?" For the woman's response refer to #3.

10 signs if u love someone

girlzadidas81 — Wed, 19 Sep 2007 04:20:25 UT

TEN:
You feel shy whenever they're around.

NINE:
You smile when you hear their voice.

EIGHT:
When you look at them, you can't see
the other people around you, you just see
him/her.

SIX:
They're all you think about.

FIVE:
You realize you're always smiling when
you're looking at them.

FOUR:
You would do anything for them, just
to see them.

THREE:
While reading this, there was one
person on your mind this whole time.

TWO:
You were so busy thinking about that
person, you didnt notice number seven was missing

ONE:
You just scrolled up to check & are
now silently laughing at yourself

HOW TO STAY YOUNG ?

girlzadidas81 — Wed, 19 Sep 2007 00:01:48 UT

1 . Throw out nonessential numbers. This includes age , weight and height. Let the doctors worry about them. That is why you pay " them ".

2 . Keep only cheerful friends. The grouches will pull you down.

3 . Keep learning. Learn more about computer , crafts , gardening , whatever.
Never let the brain idle.
" An idle brain is the devil's workshop " ,and the devil's name is Alzheimer.

4 . Enjoy the simple things.

5 . Laugh often , long and loud.......
Laugh till you gasp for breath.

6 . The tears happen. Endure , grieve and move on.
The only person who is with us the entire live , is ourselves.

7 . Surround yourself with what you love , whether it is family , pets , keepsakes , music ,
plant and hobbies, whatever. Your home is your " refuge " .

8 . Cherish health .
If it is good preserve it .
If it is unstable improve it .
If it is beyond what you can improve , get help.

9 . Don t make guilt trips .
Take a trip to the mall , even to the next county ; to a foreign country but
NOT to where the guilt is .

10 .Tell the people you really love , that you love them at every opportunity.

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER -

Life is not measured by the numbers of breath we take but
by the moments that take our breath away.

[ And if you don 't send this messege to atleast six people , I will be disappointed.
Honestly !! So please share this with your friends and if possible with your enemies
too.
We all need to live life to the fullest each day.]

Over You Daughtry

girlzadidas81 — Mon, 17 Sep 2007 04:29:33 UT

Artist: Daughtry

Now that it's all said and done,
I can't believe you were the one
To build me up and tear me down,
Like an old abandoned house.
What you said when you left
Just left me cold and out of breath.
I fell too far, was in way too deep.
Guess I let you get the best of me.

Well, I never saw it coming.
I should've started running
A long, long time ago.
And I never thought I'd doubt you,
I'm better off without you
More than you, more than you know.
I'm slowly getting closure.
I guess it's really over.
I'm finally getting better.
And now I'm picking up the pieces.
I'm spending all of these years
Putting my heart back together.
'Cause the day I thought I'd never get through,
I got over you.

You took a hammer to these walls,
Dragged the memories down the hall,
Packed your bags and walked away.
There was nothing I could say.
And when you slammed the front door shut,
A lot of others opened up,
So did my eyes so I could see
That you never were the best for me.

Well, I never saw it coming.
I should've started running
A long, long time ago.
And I never thought I'd doubt you,
I'm better off without you
More than you, more than you know.
I'm slowly getting closure.
I guess it's really over.
I'm finally getting better.
And now I'm picking up the pieces.
I'm spending all of these years
Putting my heart back together.
'Cause the day I thought I'd never get through,
I got over you.

Well, I never saw it coming.
I should've started running
A long, long time ago.
And I never thought I'd doubt you,
I'm better off without you
More than you, more than you know.

Well, I never saw it coming.
I should've started running
A long, long time ago.
And I never thought I'd doubt you,
I'm better off without you
More than you, more than you know.
I'm slowly getting closure.
I guess it's really over.
I'm finally getting better.
And now I'm picking up the pieces.
I'm spending all of these years
Putting my heart back together.
Well I'm putting my heart back together,
'Cause I got over you.
Well I got over you.
I got over you.
'Cause the day I thought I'd never get through,
I got over you.

the stroke-1251

girlzadidas81 — Thu, 06 Sep 2007 07:18:11 UT

Talk to me now I'm older
Your friend told you 'cause I told her
Friday nights have been lonely
Change your plans and then phone me.

We could go and get 40s
Fuck goin' to that party
Oh really, your folks are away now?
Alright, let's go, you convinced me.

12:51 is the time my voice
Found the words I sought...
Is it the stage I want?

The world is shutting out...for us.
We were tense for sure,
But we was confident...

Kiss me now that I'm older
I won't try to control you
Friday nights have been lonely
Take it slow but don't warn me

We'd go out and get 40s
Then we'd go to some party
Oh really, your folks are away now?
Alright I'm coming...

I'll be right there.

Redline 95- Shizuka

girlzadidas81 — Mon, 27 Aug 2007 08:33:15 UT

and when people step out this redline ,
i will never let them to go ,
never laugh cos this is the dead end ,
it is my end for its start to go ,

and when people step out this redline ,
means no other place need to go ,
let the future past in the mean time ,
and the great night kill all alone ,

it was u .. call me and told me ,
help me up and shine up my life ,
it was u .. call me again till lonely aaaa ,
it was u .. call me and told me ,
blur my eyes and tell me to do ,
is was u told me the lies i always spoke ,

and when people step out this redline ,
i will never let them to go ,
never laugh cos this is the dead end ,
it is my end for its start to go ,

and when people step out this redline ,
means no other place need to go ,
let the future past in the mean time ,
and the great night kill all alone ,

it was u .. call me and told me ,
help me up and shine up my life ,
it was u .. call me again till lonely aaaaa ,
it was u .. call me and told me ,
help me up and shine up my life ,
is was u told me the lies i always spoke ,

it was u .. call me and told me ,
help me up and shine up my life ,
it was u .. call me again till lonely aaaaa ,
it was u .. call me and told me ,
blur my eyes and tell me to do ,
it was u .. told me the lies i always do

Maroon 5 - Wake Up Call

girlzadidas81 — Tue, 21 Aug 2007 09:12:19 UT

I didn't hear what you were saying
I live on raw emotion baby
I answer questions never maybe
And I'm not kind if you betray me.
So who the the hell are you to say we
Never would have made it babe

If you needed love
Well then ask for love
Could have given love
Now I’m taking love
And it’s not my fault
'Cause you both deserve
What’s coming now
So don’t say a word

Wake up call
Caught you in the morning with another one in my bed
Don't you care about me anymore?
Don’t you care about me? I don't think so.
Six foot tall
Came without a warning so I had to shoot him dead
He won't come around here anymore
Come around here? I don't think so.

Would have bled to make you happy
You didn't need to treat me that way
And now you beat me at my own game
And now I'm finally sleeping soundly
And your lover's screaming loudly
I hear a sound and hit the ground

If you needed love
Well then ask for love
Could have given love
Now I’m taking love
And it’s not my fault
'Cause you both deserve
What’s coming now
So don’t say a word

Wake up call
Caught you in the morning with another one in my bed
You don’t care about me anymore.
Care about me? I don’t think so
Six foot tall came without a warning so I had to shoot him dead
He won’t come around here anymore.
Come around here?
I don’t feel so bad, I don’t feel so bad, I don’t feel so bad

I'm so sorry darling
Did I do the wrong thing?
Oh, what was I thinking?
Is his heart still beating?

Wake up call
Caught you in the morning with another one in my bed
Don’t you care about me anymore?
Don’t you care about me? I don’t think so
Six foot tall came without a warning so I had to shoot him dead
He won’t come around here anymore. He won’t come around here. I don’t feel so bad

Korang penah ker alami........

girlzadidas81 — Thu, 16 Aug 2007 06:06:51 UT

Pernah tak anda rasa nak kentut sgt masa tengah lepak ngan kawan
berlainan spesis/jantina, anda tahan sgt sampai terkulat muka?

Pernah tak masa anda tengah jenjalan kat depan khayalak ramai,
tetiba tu seluar spender/panties cam terselit kat celah bontot, rasa cam tak
selesa sgt, ikutkan hati nak aje tarik spender/panties itu?

Pernah tak masa tengah dalam jam, anda korek hidung, lepas tu
tengok tahi hidung itu, kemudian gentel dan jentik?

Pernah tak anda mengalami situasi di mana celah bontot amatla
gatal yang amats, di depan khalayak ramai, menyebabkan terpaksalah anda
menahan kegatalan itu dengan tabah?
Pernah tak anda tunggu kawan anda di suatu tempat contohnya di
hartamas,lepas tu anda jadi resah dan kesah sebab semua orang kelihatan cam
memandang anda sbb anda satu-satunya makhluk yang berdiri, lalu anda pun
buat-buat aksi yang menunjukkan anda sedang menunggu orang,
contohnya melihat-lihat jam tangan?
Pernah tak anda memandu kereta manual, lepas tu disebabkan kesilapan teknikal kereta anda terjerk macam kuda dan mati, sekali lagi dikhalayak ramai contohnya di depan kedai makan, lalu anda pun membatalkan
niat hendak ke kedai itu untuk menutup kemaluan yang amat?

Pernah tak di bulan puasa di waktu siang, anda berpura-pura kononnye membelikan makanan untuk kawan bukan Islam anda, dan mengadakan perbualan palsu di telefon contohnya, "haa helo Mike, aku dah belikan bigmac kau! Kau nak air ape siot?"

Sekiranya anda pernah melakukan satu atau dua atau lebih perkara
diatas, tahniah diucapkan! Kerana anda telah berjaya menjadi manusia normal!"
TAMBAHAN

Pernah kah masa korang sedang baca email kengkawan yg antar pada
korang pada waktu office cam time nie... atau pada waktu o.t. korang.... Kalau
itupernah terjadi.....Tahniah ler Jugak kerana dah jadi salah sorang
yang dianggap pekerja makan gaji buta...yeosshhhh!!!!!!

Wanita adalah bintang dan pelita

girlzadidas81 — Tue, 14 Aug 2007 09:11:19 UT

Wanita adalah bintang dan pelita bagi
lelaki. Tanpa pelita, lelaki bermalam
dalam kegelapan.

Bayangkan andainya seluruh alam ini
hanya didiami oleh lelaki. Tentu
membosankan. Sedang Nabi Adam a.s.
juga berasa tidak tenteram apabila
keseorangan, walhal apa yang tidak ada
di Syurga? Namun, fitrah manusia
memang mahu berteman, agar dengan itu
dia ada teman bicara, untuk dia
membina tali perkenalan, saling sayang
menyayang untuk membina sahsiah hidup
yang membahagiakan.

Demikian juga andainya seluruh alam
ini hanya didiami oleh wanita.
Alangkah bosannya. Tetapi kewujudan
wanita itu sendiri di samping penting
dalam kehidupan lelaki ia juga boleh
berakhir sebagai racun berbisa atau
kekal sebagai madu yang menyegarkan.

Wanita itu bintang. Ia indah di pesada
langit. Wanita itu pelita. Ia
menerangi alam di malam penuh gelita.
Wujudnya wanita selain untuk
memperhambakan dirinya kepada
PENCIPTA, juga sebagai dian dalam
hidup lelaki. Maka bertindaklah
sebagai dian yang cukup damarnya untuk
terus menerangi gua diri seorang
lelaki, usah menjadi racun yang
memusnahkan diri sendiri juga dia yang
bernama lelaki.

Lelaki itu kelihatannya perkasa,
tetapi sebenarnya lemah. Yang perkasa
mungkin fizikalnya tetapi hati dan
perasaannya tetap romantik. Jika tidak
tiada lelaki sanggup menyusahkan
dirinya untuk bergelar kekasih atau
suami kepada seorang wanita. Dengan
itu dia terpaksa melupuskan
kemerdekaannya. Dia terpaksa menjadi
manusia yang akan dijadikan tempat
pergantungan oleh banyak pihak. Dia
terpaksa menyusahkan dirinya untuk
orang lain.

Perasaan lelaki tetap halus
sebagaimana wanita, cuma dia dibekali
keperkasaan tubuh oleh ALLAH, lantaran
dia lebih dipertanggungjawabkan untuk
menerajui kehidupan di bumi.
Perasaannya tetap halus dan mudah
tersentuh. Dia boleh menangis apabila
rasa terhiris. Apa juga keperkasaan
yang ditunjukkannya dia tetap memiliki
hati yang lembut. Jika tidak seorang
panglima tidak mungkin berlutut di
hadapan kekasihnya selepas dia
membunuh 100 orang musuh di medan
peperangan.

Lelaki menjadi tidak okey bukan
sepenuhnya kehendak lelaki itu. Selalu
terjadi seorang lelaki yang berjaya
menjaga semua ciri-ciri kesolehan dan
ketaatan akhirnya kecundang oleh
godaan wanita. Usah salahkan lelaki
sangat jika perhatiannya terkalih
tetapi salahkan jugalah wanita yang
telah menggodanya. Lelaki lemah dalam
perkasa. Dia bertolak ansur dalam
bertegas. Dia boleh runtuh oleh godaan
yang berterusan.

Jika seorang lelaki terlupa
tanggungjawabnya bukan salah dia
sangat tetapi ujian yang terpaksa
ditempuhnya bermula daripada wanita
juga. Apa yang lelaki inginkan dalam
satu-satu perhubungan terlarang,
kecuali perhatian meskipun kegatalan
yang tidak dinafikan.

Lelaki amat mendambakan seorang wanita
yang baik di sisinya. Wanita lebih-
lebih lagi memerlukan seorang lelaki
yang bertanggungjawab di sisinya. Kita
saling perlu memerlukan. Kita saling
bercinta untuk kecemerlangan.
Perkahwinan adalah titik mula pada
gemilang dan terbilang. Usah jadikan
perkahwinan titik mula pada gagal dan
kecundang.

Kecantikan wanita tidak bererti apa-
apa dibandingkan dengan kemuliaan
akhlak dan perilakunya.

Gunakan kecantikan anda untuk
menundukkan seorang lelaki, anda akan
berjaya sebab tiada lelaki yang tidak
terpukau oleh kecantikan. Tetapi
apabila datang bosan dan marah
kecantikan seorang wanita sudah tidak
bermakna apa-apa lagi.

Sayangilah sebuah perkenalan kerana di
situ ada kenangan. Kenangi sebuah
perhubungan kerana di situ ada
kerinduan. Sayangi kedua-duanya kerana
ia rahmat TUHAN

Nak Kaya

girlzadidas81 — Fri, 03 Aug 2007 06:35:14 UT

Nak Kaya by RR 17/04/01
> ----------------------
Ini adalah kisah benar yang telah diceritakan sendiri oleh (Nama samaran
Mamat) kepada wartawan Variasari.

Sewaktu si mamat dalam perjalanan manaiki kereta untuk pulang ke KL daripada JB melalui lebuhraya, beliau berhenti rehat di salah sebuah hentian. Sewaktu berehat maka datanglah kepadanya seorang tua yang berpakaian agak compang-camping lalu menegurnya, "Anak nak ke mana?". Si mamat menjawab ringkas, "KL" .Orang tua itu bertanya lagi, "Boleh pakcik tumpang sampai ke Pagoh" dan dijawab oleh si mamat tadi "Ehm... bolehlah." Lantas orang tua itu masuk dan duduk di dalam keretanya.; Dalam hati si mamat berkata, "Hai, siapalah orang tua nii, orang ke atau ???" Beliau meneruskan perjalanannya.

Sebaik menghampiri Pagoh, orang tua tadi bertanya, "Anak nak kaya tak?" Si mamat tersentak dan berkata dalam hati, "Dah buat dah orang tua ni. Nak bagi aku kaya pulak. Orang tua ni nak bagi aku nombor kot. Atau nak menguji aku?" Si mamat pun jawab, "Tak apalah pakcik, hidup sederhanapun cukup. Kalau kaya nanti lupa diri pulak" Orang tua tu tak bertanya lagi. Dalam hati si mamat berkata mungkin jawapannya adalah yang terbaik takut-takut itu hanya ujian daripada orang tua tadi. Kemudian orang tua tu tanya lagi, "Anak nak kaya tak?"
Si mamat jawab serupa yang tadi, "Tak apalah pakcik, saya lebih senang hidup sederhana".

Bila sampai di Pagoh, orang tua itu minta diturunkan lalu berkata, "Tu, pakcik ada tinggalkan satu tin kaya cap Yeo's untuk anak sebagai tanda terima kasih kerana tumpangkan pakcik. Terima kasih, ya nak." lalu orang tua tu turun dari kereta. Si mamat tersipu-sipu malu lalu menjawab, "Terima kasihlah pakcik" lalu meneruskan perjalanan.

Pengajaran dari cerita tadi, kalau orang bagi kaya minta dia roti sekali.
Itulah ceritanya.....

have a nice day

Trees (Marty Casey ft IXNS Rockstar)

girlzadidas81 — Tue, 31 Jul 2007 03:00:25 UT

Trees
by Marty Casey

I dont want to go through this life
Without you by my side.

And I've got it all worked out
In my head here's how it's got to be.

It'll be you and me up in the trees
And the forest will give us the answers.

(That's right.)

We will make believe
In a world we rule together.

We can build our dreams
With the knot tied tight( to last forever.

It'll be you and me up in the trees
And the forest will give us the answers.

It'll be you and I up in the sky
It's a combination for disaster.

(yeahyeahyeah..) We got one shot -
So where do we go from here?

It'll be you and me up in the trees
And the forest will give us the answers.

It'll be you and I up in the sky
It's a combination for disaster.

And I know there's more for us in this life....

MEANT TO LIVE

girlzadidas81 — Mon, 30 Jul 2007 08:29:05 UT

SWITCHFOOT
MEANT TO LIVE

Fumbling his confidence
And wondering why the world has passed him by
Hoping that he's bid for more than arguments
And failed attempts to fly, fly

[Chorus]
We were meant to live for so much more
Have we lost ourselves?
Somewhere we live inside
Somewhere we live inside
We were meant to live for so much more
Have we lost ourselves?
Somewhere we live inside

Dreaming about Providence
And whether mice or men have second tries
Maybe we've been livin with our eyes half open
Maybe we're bent and broken, broken

[Chorus]

We want more than this world's got to offer
We want more than this world's got to offer
We want more than the wars of our fathers
And everything inside screams for second life, yeah

We were meant to live for so much more
Have we lost ourselves?
We were meant to live for so much more
Have we lost ourselves?
We were meant to live for so much more
Have we lost ourselves?
We were meant to live
We were meant to live

"Dance Floor Anthem"

girlzadidas81 — Mon, 30 Jul 2007 07:59:40 UT

GOOD CHARLOTTE LYRICS

She’s going out to forget they were together
All that time he was taking her for granted
She wants to see if there’s more
Than he gave she’s looking for

He calls her up
He’s trippin’ on the phone
Now he doesn’t want her out there and alone
Now he knows she’s moving it
Knows she’s using it
Now he’s loosing it
She don’t care

Everybody
Put up your hands Say:
”I don’t wanna be in love, I don’t wanna be in love”
Feel the beat now
If you’ve got nothing left say:
”I don’t wanna be in love, I don’t wanna be in love”
Back it up now
You’ve got a reason to live say:
”I don’t wanna be in love, I don’t wanna be in love”
Feeling good now
Don’t be afraid to get down say:
”I don’t wanna be in love, I don’t wanna be in love”

He was always giving her attention
Working hard to find the things she mentioned
He was dedicated
By most sucka’s hated
That girl was fine
But she didn’t appreciate him

She calls him up she’s trippin’ on the phone
Now he had to get up and he ain’t coming home
Now he’s trying to forget her
That's how he got with her
When he first met her
When they first got together

Everybody
Put up your hands Say:
”I don’t wanna be in love, I don’t wanna be in love”
Feel the beat now
If you’ve got nothing left say:
”I don’t wanna be in love, I don’t wanna be in love”
Back it up now
You’ve got a reason to live say:
”I don’t wanna be in love, I don’t wanna be in love”
Feeling good now
Don’t be afraid to get down say:
”I don’t wanna be in love, I don’t wanna be in love”

To the beat
To the beat
To the beat

You got nothing to lose,
Don’t be afraid to get down

We break up it’s something that we do now
Everyone has got to do it sometime
It’s okay
Let it go
Get out there and find someone

It’s too late to be trippin’ on the phone here
Get off the wire
Now everything is good here
Stop what you’re doing
You don’t wanna ruin
The chance that you got to
Find a new one

Everybody
Put up your hands Say:
”I don’t wanna be in love, I don’t wanna be in love”
Feel the beat now
If you’ve got nothing left say:
”I don’t wanna be in love, I don’t wanna be in love”
Back it up now
You’ve got a reason to live say:
”I don’t wanna be in love, I don’t wanna be in love”
Feeling good now
Don’t be afraid to get down say:
”I don’t wanna be in love, I don’t wanna be in love”

No
No

Now you know what to do
So come on
Feelin’ good

Rehab

girlzadidas81 — Fri, 27 Jul 2007 04:40:43 UT

Artist : Amy Winehouse
Song : Rehab

They tried to make me go to rehab, I said no, no, no
Yes I've been black and when I come back, no no no
I ain't got the time
And if my daddy thinks I¡¯m fine
They tried to make me go to rehab I won¡¯t go, go, go

I¡¯d rather be at home with Ray
I ain¡¯t got seventy days
Cos there¡¯s nothing,there's nothing you can teach me
That I can¡¯t learn from Mr Hathaway

Didn¡¯t get a lot in class
But I know it don¡¯t come in a shot glass

They tried to make me go to rehab, I said no, no, no
Yes I've been black and when I come back, no no no
I ain't got the time
And if my daddy thinks I¡¯m fine
They tried to make me go to rehab I won¡¯t go, go, go

The man said "why do you think you here?"
I said "I got no idea"

I¡¯m gonna, I'm gonna lose my baby
So I always keep a bottle near
He said "I just think you¡¯re depressed"
This me "Yeah baby, and the rest"

They tried to make me go to rehab I said no, no, no
Yes I've been black but when I come back, no, no, no

I don¡¯t ever want to drink again
I just, ooh just need a friend
I¡¯m not gonna spend ten weeks
Have everyone think I¡¯m on the mend

it¡¯s not just my pride
It¡¯s just till these tears have dried

They tried to make me go to rehab, I said no, no, no
Yes I've been black and when I come back, no no no
I ain't got the time
And if my daddy thinks I¡¯m fine
They tried to make me go to rehab I won¡¯t go, go, go
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