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FRNDS ! R THEY 4 LIFETIME? (Sean Carter)

eliana_vill — Mon, 18 Aug 2008 01:49:08 UT

This is a question which must have crossed every person's mind quite a number of times. Friendship is

something which connects people through mutual knowledge, esteem and affection. It revolves around

loyalty, empathy , genuine affection for each other and the ability to understand others.

We often think whether our friend really cares and feels for us in the same way that we do. If they

indeed do , then you are one of the fortunate people in the world . Today's world, has become very fast

and artificial. What looks apparent from outside may not be the same from inside. People try to take

advantage of one another, all in the name of friendship. Friendship somewhere down the line has lost its

significance. Friendship at one time meant lots of sacrifice and doing anything for one another come what

may .In today's world it also means hanging around coffee shops, movies, discos and having a good time

together . People these days have taken friendships to be a kind of recreation and a medium of spending

free and leisure time. It has lost its luster and meaning today because our views regarding what we

expect from life and relationships have changed . We sometimes view friendships as a stepping stone to

success , At times we become manipulative and try to take advantage of our friends because of the

influence they yield in certain social circles .

Friends are people whom you would really like to count upon and trust them for anything. Wouldn't you

raise a smile in the middle of your boring day if a friend suddenly drops by to say a simple Hello. It feels

good to know that somebody thinks about you and cares for your feelings. But it also equally important to

reciprocate their feelings. A one sided friendship doesn't last for long. First you need to realize how

important is a Friend for us . We need to ask ourselves we if can give something to them without

expecting anything in return. A friend who sticks to you through thick and thin is a 'True Friend'. They love

you for what you are and really don't care about how you look or how you behave. They feel the closest to

you and are able to share their inner most thoughts and feelings with you. In hard times when they don't

have anyone to stand by them , They stick with you and try to make things smother for you .

Saying "Friends in need is a friend indeed" doesn't mean anything , it has to be implemented in real life.

Friends don't mean only being there in one another's good times but also in the bad times as well. A true

friend does not try to change you according to their preferences but accepts you as you are. Such

friendships are precious possessions and should be valued by those who have it.

True and good friends are really hard to find, so if you have some, don't let them go and try to hang on

really tight with them. They would be then Friends for a lifetime..

Life will be more enjoyable and the world may seem to be a much better place to live if you have got true

Friends who love you and respect you .

TRUE FRNDSHIP

eliana_vill — Thu, 01 Nov 2007 09:39:38 UT

TRUE FRNDSHIP.

Frndship aint always easily described. The Eskimos, they say, ve a hundred diffrent words 4 snow.

Unfortunately, the English language aint quite as innovative, though it has vast

opportunities to diffrentiate meaning. Certainly, "Love" s 1 of those opportunities,

& so, s "Frndship", as well.

Instead of diffrent words, however, we re stuck w simple adjectives. Close frnd.

Best frnd. Childhood friend. Intimate frnd. Trusted frnd. Bloved frnd.

But ,whether u use adjectives or diffrent words, few could deny the nearly infinite

meaning in such a simple word.

Frnds r special ppl. We cant pick our family & we re sorely limited in the number

of them at any rate.

Society & mores, (& often our own consciences), dictate we select a single mate.

But our frnds can b as diverse & infinite as the adjectives we choose. Our frnds,

in a very real sense, reflect the choices we make in life.

True friendship

eliana_vill — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 11:15:29 UT

If one day you feel like crying-
call me.
I don't proomise you that I will make you laugh,
But I can cry with you.

If one day you want to run away
Don't be afraid to call me.
I don't promise to ask you to stay,
But I can run with you.

If one day you don;t want to listen to anybody,
Call me....
I promise to be very quiet
But,
If one day you call
and there is no answer...

Come fast to see me,
Perhaps I need Your Friendship!!

THANK YOU FOR ALWAYS BEING THERE FOR ME!!

A good friend

eliana_vill — Fri, 12 Oct 2007 07:59:49 UT

A Friend... is a tissue when you can't stop crying
A Friend... is a shoulder when you feel like dying
A Friend... always listens when you have something to say
A Friend... is a week when you need a day
A Friend... is a crutch when you have a brokenheart
A Friend... is some glue when everything falls apart
A Friend... is a sun when the rain just won't stop
A Friend... is your'mom when you run into a cop
A Friend... is a phone call when you can't leave your home
A Friend... is a hand when you feel all alone
A Friend... is a wing if you want to fly
A Friend... understands without knowing why
A Friend... is an ear for a secret to tell
A Friend... is an aspirin when your head hurts like hell
A Friend... is a love that can never let go
A Friend... is you, and i wanted you to know!!