Blog 6
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The ONE
How do we know that the one we are with actually is "THE ONE?" Could it be because we find ourselves without appetites? or that we are constantly thinking bout them? or is it because that we r just not happy in our current relationships? And that the pserson we have came across seem to have the qualities which the other people do not have and therefore we seek and find it elsewhere. Sometimes it just stumbles upon us with out searching, and slaps us in the face. Some call this fate or destiny. Then we feel that this person is "exactly what I want in my life." All I do is think about them and the next time we are going to see eachther. Oh yea don't forget the phone calls. See I love to hear the person who has my heart's voice at least once a day when we are apart. It comforts me so much. I'm not sayin that if he does not call me i would be crushed, but i am saying that i just love to close my eyes when we tlk n imagine he is right here with me. When two people feel that they cant stand to be apart it makes the time that you are together very special. No matter what they do while together. They can do absolutely nothing and have a wonderful time for the are together. That's how I feel bout having, finding, or knowing that the person whom you are with IS "THE ONE." Sorry if this comes across a lil bit spacey or jumpy, but i am going to see "THE ONE" for me today. I am so excited and i cannot think straight. Rudy I know your reading this right now and yes hun this is about you and I. As if you didn't know but I had to out you on blast. I want to tell the whole world that true love really does exist especially when your not expecting it.
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honesty and lies
People say that "HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY" and I must say I do agree. For without honesty their cannot be trust. Without trust there is emptiness. Without honesty their are lies. Being honest makes everything so much easier to deal with. Once a person lies they have to continue living the lie which then spirils out of control, and before they know it their whole life becomes this big fat lie (which began from a lil white innocent one). Some people feel that being honest is a sign of weakness. which in actuality it is a sign of strength. For it takes alot more strength and courage to tell the truth and live in an honest environment then one which is built upon lies. So do everyone a favor and be honest. Life is too short to live it as a lie. Even in instances which we stumble upon in life we feel that it would not hurt to lie for it would be esier than the truth. Well, news flash it's not. You then have to be honest and true to yourself before you can do the same for others. Lies create chaos.
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Guilt
Guilt is a feeling one gets when they have done something they regret. Everyone has guilt, or has done something at one point in their lives they wish they had not done. I however recently took a chance at something and before, during and after I did it I had no guilt. Which in my mind tells me that it was ok to do and keep on doing it for it feels right and it makes me happy. If you have to worry about a situation in order to do it then fate is telling you not to do it. If you do NOT have issues about a situation then more than likely it is ok. But keep in mind that not everyone can tell the difference between whats right and whats wrong when it comes to their TRUE feelings. They are more llikely to do things in order to please themselves, and not care bout others. they will say they do not have guilt,when in actuallity they do. Then after the truth comes out the guilt sets in. They end up regreting what they have done. No matter what the situation may be. Do be truthful to yourself and others and think before you do things. Make sure you know what you are doing, keep in touch with your feelings and instincts. Most importantly don't be selfish. For example, let's say you find someone and you do not know what the feelings are between the two of u. Therefore, you take a chance n have sex, the next thing you know u find urself sitting alone and keep thinking, dwelling on, and regretting what you have just done. First of all that is just plain DUMB, cuz you are just pleasing ur needs and desires which makes u selfish and stupid. Second of all you will have massive guilt, cuz u did not think AT ALL and third you don't respect urself. So don't be dumb or stupid and make sure you have true feelings towards a person before you go any farther with them. Therefore, you wont have to worry bout feeling guilty. And there will not be regrets on either end. Fallow your heart and the and body will fallow and take you closer to the happiness you deserve.
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Life is a Gamble
We have all heard the saying that "LIFE IS A GAMBLE." Which is true, therfore I suppose we are all in a way gamblers. We gamble on/in life everyday. Whether we realize it or not. Love also, is a gamble. For we are taking the chance to experience the feeling of love. Love is tricky at times, however it keeps us on our toes. It puts our true feelings and emotions in check. When "IN LOVE" ppl tend to do things they would not nromally do. They take that chance on getting hurt. getting their heart broken. They put their heart out there hopeing and praying that they will find that special to person who will give them the love they are searching for, and wont take advantage of their vulnerablity. Not sayin ppl who are in love are vulnerable but it is a factor when u totally drop ur guard and accept a new beginning. Whether that beginning is a friendship, or a new job or whatever life thows at us each and everyday. So why not take the gamble take the chance and accpet the change. If you don't then you will never know what could have been or might happen. I
I recently took the "chance" and "gambled" and and I am so glad I did for I found Love and happiness. If i didnt take the chance i would not have experienced the true meaning of the words. It is so nice to have the inner peace and equality. Take those chances in life see what it brings to you. You will be surprised how it changes your life for the better. -
friendship
Happiness and love are the keys to a successful life with another person. Fiendship is the beginning to that life. First, we are freinds, then we are best of friends. Which is where love comes in. Love is not complicated. It is when you can see yourself with that "friend" forever. Friendships and love are tested everyday. Friends are the people who will be there for you when times are tough and they accept you for the choices you make in life (whether or not they agree with those choices). True friends however are very tough to come by. When a person has been burned so many times by people who they thought were their friends thay begin to build a wall up, making it hard for them to trust. Life without trust and friends is very lonely. Therefore we let our guard down slowly and begin to trust again. Life is tough enough on its own, its harder to live life alone. I am very greatful for I have finally let down my guard and made a friend who quickly became my best friend and who is now the "best friend" I am in love with.
This was my first intense blog about a real topic. I hope I did ok. I spoke from my heart and as always was very truthful. Anyhow, that is my opinion in regards to friendships. Have a wonderful day and remember let ur guard down a little bit for people who want to be your friend. And only time will tell you if that was a good decision or not. Be true to yourself and to others. Tlk bout things that r bothering you, don't keep them inside (they will destroy you). -
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Don't tell say " I LOVE YOU" to me when you don't know me. If you do then I know ur an idiot and don't know the meaning of the words.