StevenFoo
male - 19 years, Alor Star, Malaysia
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爱，不要随便分手
爱的感觉，总是在一开始觉得很甜蜜-
总觉得多一个人陪、多一个人帮你分- ，
你终於不再孤单了，至少有一个人想- 你、
恋著你，不论做什么事情，
只要能一起，就是好的，
但是慢慢的，随著彼此的认识愈深，
你开始发现了对方的缺点，
於是问题一个接著一个发生，
你开始烦、累，甚至想要逃避，
所以有活力的爱情，
是需要适度殷勤灌溉的，
谈恋爱，更是不可以偷懒的喔！
有一对情侣，相约下班後去用餐、逛- ，
可是女孩因为公司会议而延误了，
当她冒著雨赶到的时候已经迟到了30多- 分钟，
他的男朋友很不高兴的说：
「你每次都这样，现在我甚么心情也- 了，
我以後再也不会等你了！」
刹那间，女孩终於决堤崩溃了，
她心里在想：或许，他们再也没有未- 了！
同样的在同一个地点，另一对情侣也- 临同样的处境；
女孩赶到的时候也迟到了半个钟头，
他的男朋友说：「我想你一定忙坏了- ！」
接著他为女孩拭去脸上的雨水，并且- 去外套盖在女孩身上，
此刻，女孩流泪了！
但是流过她脸颊的泪却是温馨的。
你体会到了吗？
其实爱、恨往往只是在我们的一念之- ！
爱不仅要懂得宽容更要及时，
很多事可能只是在於你心境的转变罢- ！
懂了吗？
当有个人爱上你，而你也觉得他不错-
那并不代表你会选择他。
我们总说：「我要找一个你很爱很爱- 人，你才会谈恋爱。」
但是当对方问你，怎样才算是很爱很- 的时候，
你却无法回答他，因为你自己也不知- 。
没错，我们总是以为，我们会找到一- 自己很爱很爱的人。
可是後来，当我们猛然回首，我们才- 发觉自己曾经多么天真。
假如从来没有开始，你怎么知道自己- 不会很爱很爱那个人呢？
其实，很爱很爱的感觉，是要在一起- 历了许多事情之後才会发
现的。
或许每个人都希望能够找到自己心目- 百分之百的伴侣，
但是你有没有想过：
『在你身边会不会早已经有人默默对- 付出很久了，只是你没发
觉而已呢？』
所以，还是仔细看看身边的人吧！他- 许已经等你很久喽！
有人说，喝酒的时候，六分醉的微醺- 是最舒服的。
肌肉可以得到松弛，眼中看到的一切- 是可爱的，
如果你还继续喝，很可能隔天你会头- 欲裂，全身不舒服，
完全丧失了喝酒的乐趣。
吃饭的时候，七分饱的满足感是最舒- 的。
口中还留著食物的香味，再加上饭後- 点、水果，
保持身材和身体健康绝对足够。
如果你还继续吃，很可能会肠胃不适- 吃太饱想睡觉，
完全丧失了吃饭的乐趣。
当你爱一个人的时候，爱到八分绝对- 刚好。
所有的期待和希望都只有七八分；剩- 两三分用来爱自己。
如果你还继续爱得更多，很可能会给- 方沉重的压力，让彼此喘
不过气来，
完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。
所以请记住，
喝酒不要超过六分醉，
吃饭不要超过七分饱，
爱一个人不要超过八分喔！
那天朋友问我：「到底该怎么做才算- 爱一个人呢？」
我笑著跟他说：
「其实每个人的爱情观都不一样，
说对了叫开导，
但就怕说错反倒变成误导。那就糟糕- ！ 」
如果你也正在为爱迷惘，或许下面这- 话可以给你一些启示：
爱一个人，要了解，也要开解；
要道歉，也要道谢；
要认错，也要改错；
要体贴，也要体谅；
是接受，而不是忍受；
是宽容，而不是纵容；
是支持，而不是支配；
是慰问，而不是质问；
是倾诉，而不是控诉；
是难忘，而不是遗忘；
是彼此交流，而不是凡事交代；
是为对方默默祈求，
而不是向对方诸多要求；
可以浪漫，但不要浪费；
可以随时牵手，
但不要随便分手。 -
Love Her For Who She is
This ia written by one of my friend- Sze Pei. I like it so much, so i copy from her and paste it in my blog, for my friend to view it. Girls or Boys... Enjoy reading and really "digest" it.
Love the girl in your heart, not in your mind. If you base your relationship on feelings, it will fail for there are ups & downs in feelings. Girls are there to be loved, not toyed around. Love her for who she is. Don't even think about changing any bit about her. 6 billion people in this world & 6 billion different personalities. She's special & she will stay that way. You change any part of her, you'll change her forever. Don't substitute her for anyone else, they are just unique in their own ways. Love whole-heartedly. She sacrificed a lot for you so you'd better really treassure her. She could have just got up & date a so much more dashing guy in town but she chose you instead all because of love. So love her guys, not play with her. Don't just get the girl to beg you to stay or whatsoever. If you're with her, love her. Don't cause a strain in the relationship, you'll end up loving each other out of pity or charity, that's not respecting love at all. Respect love the way it is & everything will be the best it can be. Don't expect perfection from her. She's the only one in the world & she's done the best she could. Like another girl while you're in a relationship? Then I think it's time you remain single for a while. Don't go around breaking girls' hearts, it's the most tragic thing to do. Tell the truth, never hide anything from her. If you want her to tell you everything, do the same. Don't go calling other girls "honey" or "darling", how would it feel if your girl calls other guys the same way? Be faithful, enough is enough. Socialise only when you're single. You socialise &flirt around is to get the girl of your dreams. Get it over when she's already yours, don't ask for more. It never kills to be romantic. Think, be flexible. Getting that diamond ring isn't the only gift for her. Be realistic, she's human & she lives life just like you. Something sweet & simple always get the job done. Money doesn't exist between couples, it's the love. Never promise her that you'll love her forever because your forever might end the next day. Love her as if each day is the last. Sweet talks only apply for singles, not for attached guys. Do that & you'll really break your girl's heart. Isn't good being too well-known too, it'll give her a sense of insecurity. Remember,INSECURITY. Promise her & make sure you never break it. Swear to her & make sure you keep it. Pledge your love to her & her alone. Loving her is giving her your heart to break it but trusting her not to. Instead, she'll cherish it & protect it. That's love. Give her your heart, your life,your everything. Lay down your life & prepare to die for her when the need arises. But stay strong & live through another day, she can never live without you. Never, ever walk out of her life. She won't just cry her heart out & carry on living as per normal, she'd die. It's her heart that you've broken, how would you ever know how she feels? Winning a girl's heart isn't the final victory. Don't leave her once you've won her love. Love her all the way till the end of time, love her till marriage, love her till old age, love her till death. If you can love her till the end of time, you've earned the honor & respect for you've truly loved her. She chose you because she believes that you can fulfil your promise. Win her heart & love her over. Remember, the girl isn't a trophy for display, she's someone to love, not to show off to your "friends". Stay humble yet proud that she's the one for you. Respect her for the way she is, never despise her & never mistreat her, never even think of toying with her... -
咖啡
自从爱上你后，
我开始喜欢上喝咖啡，
对咖啡的眷恋似涟绮办越来越深。
每个夜里我都会偷偷地去冲咖啡，
然后在房里细细地品尝。
回忆像拼图，
在咖啡香味的催化下慢慢地重组。
你的身影，样貌和那熟悉的味道…….
你曾说过，
喝咖啡的人必须用心去品尝，
才能喝出咖啡那浓浓的咖啡味。
当时我不明白你对咖啡的执着，
但却被你深深地吸引住了！
我因为你，接触了第一杯咖啡。
第一次尝试咖啡的滋味我忘了，
却忘不了你拒绝我的那一刻。
