MQAMAR
male - 30 years, Lahore, Pakistan
Blog 306
I am an easygoing, down to earth person with a lot of potential and creativity to be somewhere in life.
Love to help people, i m very romantic, nice, respect you for what you are, very emotional and sensitive.
I am just a normal human being, boring at times, but interesting at times. How i'll treat u depends on how i feel at the moment. Not the best gul in the world so dont keep ur hopes up... i Hate relationships so all i can do with you is either b friends or fool around.....My Thoughts... My Feelings... Myself...
Reading my blog will leads you to know me better, who am i... & what i feel....
Feel FREE to drop your comments..
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MORNING POEM
a morning poem
Woke early one morning,
the earth lay cool and still,
when suddenly a tiny bird,
perched on my window sill,
it sang a song so lovely,
so carefree and so gay,
that slowly all my troubles,
began to slip away,
it sang of far off places,
of laughter and of fun,
it seemed his very song,
brought out the morning sun,
I pulled back the covers,
and crept slowly out of bed,
and gently shut the window,
and crushed his freaking head,
I'm not a
morning person
· the last letter to be
I exist now dreaming in reality, shades of deep reds and grays,
Evolving at the speed of light
As my third eye sees all, I bring my fingers to my lips and time stops
I taste you.
I ponder you and wallow in the memory of your scent and way.
How you called me boy
The way you made me laugh
The way you touched my heart and made me
believe
Unable to stop, it seems too wonderful,
but in the end there is not much but pain.
I allow this for some time, then I awake
and know that I am alive and the possibilities are endless.
Wanting you to taste my soul
and undeniably know that I am the one
and we are one to conquer happiness together,
unimaginably, the way you knew that we could
and will if you say one word,
Yes!
Your fear. Your ego. Your pride. They protect and also hurt you,
keeping you from what is rightfully yours, -
LOVE IN DISTANCE
love in distance
If distance makes the heart grow fonder,
then let it keep our hearts from wander.
Make me strong and build thyself,
fix thy faults and lift mine health.
Thy actions strange and not of old,
for what is meant may be foretold.
Look deeper to the fold of reason,
betwixt the mode that makes our treason.
Help me see what hurt I bear to thee,
for love and life with you I see.
Within thyself, an instrument of gold,
most dear to me, myself, you hold.
'Tis what you seek, and I of you.
Make this your heart and key to true
love and freedom from our woes of fear.
For you, my love, I hold most dear.
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I never knew
Friend i never knew
I never knew
When I wished for you
That the wish I wished
Would soon come true
I never knew
When I dreamed of you
In the dreams I dreamed
You would love me too
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hehe
a boy kills a butterfly his dads says " no butter 4 a week ! "
the nxt week the boy kills a honey bee! dad says no honey 4 2 weeks!
the nxt day mum kills a cockroach !
boy turns to dad and says " u gana tell her or am i !"
fortune teller
just had a appointment with a fortune teller,
she told me a lot of money was gana come my way...
i left all excited as u can imagine .....
as i left a fucking securicor ran me down ! ffs thats all that money comin my way ey !
happy and sad
a husband and wife were sittin watchin tv
the husband turned to his wife and said "babe tell me sumin that will make me happy and sad at the same time ".........................................
the wife turned to him and said "you have the biggest cock out ov all ya friends"
joke
a little boy disturbs his parents having sex, mum was on top,
the boy asks "what are you doing?"
mum says " dad has a big belly so i get on top to flatten it,"
boy says "your wasting your time coz when you go out shoppin the lady next door gets down on her knees and blows it back up again "
dangerous virus
a dangerous virus is goin around,
its called work, if u receive it from ya boss or any1 else do not touch it !
this virus wipes out ya life completly.
if u should come into contact with work go straight to the nearest pub & order the only known antidote which is called beer,
please forward this warnin immediately to at least 6 friends, if u dont have six friends you are already infected & work has taken control!!!!!
joke
a man layin on on the beach sun bathing wearing nothing but a cap on his cock!
a woman passes and remarks, "if u was any sort of gentlman u wud lift ya hat 2 a lady",
the man replies"if u wernt so fking ugly the hat wud lift itself !!" -
Love is Othemess
Love should not be reserved or shut into a single day. Those who are in relationships or who are married should find ways to love each other on a daily basis. You can have Valentine’s Day, everyday!
Real love will not attempt to manipulate for self centered motivations or gratifications. Love will consider the needs of others and act with intention to fulfill those emotional needs. This is referred to as "otherness". If your partnership is struggling in some manner, consider your otherness mindset. We are all here to learn how to love, life is about far more than what we can acquire for ourselves in love relationships, physical desires, or in materialistic possessions. If we fail to learn the meaning of love and how to love others in our lives, we have missed the meaning of life.
Men and women have different affectional needs, their desires are not the same. Men, find out what your female partners love languages are and then love them in that context. Listen to her and be considerate of her emotional needs, she is not in your life to be a sexual object for self satisfying indulgence. A relationship is far more than just being physically intimate, it encompasses caring, thoughtfulness, companionship, and otherness. Romance is a form of love in which you can, in some manner, incorporate into your daily lives. Make plans to do fun things with her, things you know she will enjoy. She should be your best friend, the most cherished person in your life, your companion, your partner and your lover, all in the same context.
Women to love your husband is to respect him. Yes you want him to do things for you that shows his thoughtfulness and sometimes you may be expecting him to do things that he does not do and you may become disappointed. Avoid setting yourself up for this, expectations are windows to disappointment. Encourage him by communicating to him in ways you know he will understand. Try to motivate him with love, use words of affirmation, love builds up. Understand that he does have a hormonal desire for physical attention, that is the way he was wired. Sexual intimacy for most men is a significant emotional need and it will say to him that you love him.
Men and women are very different, they do not think the same, nor do they have the same emotional needs. A couple needs to have sensitivity for each others desires. They also need to communicate with each other clearly, in a manner that they know will be understood by the each other. When two people are being considerate of each other they open the streams in which love can flow. To begin to understand what love is for yourselves, read the following bible scripture.
LOVE is patient and kind;
LOVE is not jealous or boastful;
it is not arrogant or rude.
LOVE does not insist on its own way;
it is not irritable or resentful;
it does not rejoice at wrong,
but rejoices in the right.
LOVE bears all things, believes all things,
hopes all things, endures all thing -
Inner Dialogue and Self Power
Being synchronized with the intelligence field creates balance physically, emotionally, and spiritually. It gives you strength and flexibility that allow you to meet any challenge effortlessly. You become capable of transforming the challenge in such a way thatit nourishes you, and you draw greater strength from meeting the challenge.
Our inner dialogue gives us that kind of bright power because it is, in fact, the inner dialogue of the conscious intelligence field. When we are in tune with the universal consciousness, when we are synchronized in the non-local intelligence field, we take on the power that emanates from that boundless force. This power comes from within, and when you have it, nothing is beyond your reach.
There are two kinds of power that emanate from the self. The first is the power of agency–the power that comes from having a famous name, lots of money, or an impressive title. The power of agency can be formidable, but it eventually comes to an end. True power comes from within, and it has a spiritual rather than a material foundation. It is permanent and does not die with your body.
With agency, identity and power come from some external reference–an object, a situation, a status symbol, a relationship, money. With self-power, identity comes from listening to the true self, and power comes from the internal reference of spirit.
When you work from this internal reference, your sense of self is clear and is not affected by external factors. This is the source of personal power.
Adapted from The Spontaneous Fulfillment of Desire, by Deepak Chopra (Three Rivers Press). -
What is Your Belief System about Trauma?
If someone randomly commits violence against you, the facts seem to scream that life is unfair, you are innocent, random human cruelty took away your sense of self-control. But despite all that, what’s really happening is that you have shifted into relating to the world through a trauma.
It isn’t the trauma itself that caused the shift. There had to be readiness inside. In truth life is neither fair nor unfair. The world is a reflection of who we are inside. If you can stop relating to the world through your trauma, there is hope that you can begin to relate through your soul. Here is how the process needs to go.
Victims hang on to their status because they feel innocent. The specific idea I am innocent is a blind, a mask. Yes, you are innocent. But only a stronger sense of self is going to rescue you. Your mind will never resolve why you, of all people, got hurt. Its struggles are futile from the outset.
I’ve met people who spend years in an attempt to figure out whether their misfortunes are due to bad karma. This becomes the magical word for a twisted logic that says, “I didn’t think I deserved to be hurt, but if you look at a deeper, more mystical layer, I did.”
This isn’t really the answer. First of all, it doesn’t heal the wound. Secondly, it exists as a mental construct and does little to salve the emotions, which are the chief fuel for ongoing victimization. You feel victimized, regardless of what your mind says.
The whole package–the event itself, the wound, the feelings that erupt, and the mind’s scramble to find an explanation–is so interwoven that it cannot be untangled. If you can face this fact, you have come a long way to understanding how life works. -
Combat Evil Through Personal Transformation
It is important to remember that anything you can do to expand your awareness will automatically counter evil. Be gentle when you are tempted to be harsh. Pay attention when you are tempted to turn a blind eye. Accept that the negativity you are feeling belongs to you when you are tempted to blame someone else.
Personal transformation on this level is the highest way to combat evil. The more conscious you become, the more you come into balance. Once balanced, you can choose to reject destruction; your awareness expands beyond the immediate hurt to see that evolution is eternal and therefore eternally possible.
We would all agree that anger gives rise to many evil acts, not anger per se, but anger that has become trapped. If your awareness is open and free, anger flows through it. This applies both to rage generated inside yourself when you feel victimized, and anger that comes from outside, in the form of an attack.
Both are meant to leave when their job is done. Anger’s work is to alert your defense systems. Aggression and defense are part of the survival repertoire of almost every species that must compete to mate, find food, and occupy territory. Festering, it feeds on itself and eventually breaks out in violence.
Every living system that goes out of balance attempts to right itself. Despite all the talk about human beings being innately violent, aren’t we also innately gentle? The evidence for both is equally strong.
Adapted from The Deeper Wound: Recovering the Soul from Fear and Suffering, by Deepak Chopra (Harmony Books, 2001). -
Inner peace !!!!!!!
There shine a light in the heart of man.
That defies the dead of the night.
A beam that close within every soul.
Like wings of hope takim flight.
Somewhere there's a paradise.
where everyone finds release.
a place we all find our peace.
Came...open your heart.
Believe your own power.
Now, here in this place.
It's just a place we call paradise.
Each of us own.
It's has no price.
It's are your heart.
Where is our inner peace.
Just look !!!!! -
Quantum Healing and Consciousness
. Consciousness is a force that most of us undervalue. Generally we do not focus our inner awareness or use its real power, even in the most difficult moments of crisis. That may account for why “miracle” cures are greeted with a mixture of awe, disbelief, and reverence. Yet, everyone possesses consciousness. Perhaps these miracles are extensions of normal abilities.
What marks a survivor as opposed to a non-survivor? Apparently the successful patients have learned to motivate their own healing, and the most successful have gone much further than that. They have found the secret of quantum healing. They are the geniuses of the mind-body connection.
Modern science cannot even begin to duplicate their cures, because no cure that relies on drugs or surgery is so precisely timed, so beautifully coordinated, so benign and free of side effects, so effortless as theirs. Their ability springs from a level so deep that you cannot go any deeper. If we knew what their brains were doing to motivate their bodies, we would have the basic unit of the healing process in our hands.
As yet, medicine has not taken the quantum leap, and the word quantum has no clinical application. Because quantum physics works with ultra-high-speed accelerators, you may think that quantum healing uses radioisotopes or X rays. But that is the opposite of what it means.
The deepest core of the mind-body system is where healing begins. To go there and learn to promote the healing response, you must get past all the grosser levels of the body–cells, tissues, organs, and systems–and arrive at the junction point between mind and matter, the point where consciousness actually starts to have an effect.
