Dev_S
male - 17 years, Richmond, Canada
Blog / younger women with older men. wtf.
Monday, 11 February 2008 at 16:59
Ok, I've been noticing a trend in ladies recently. No, I'm not trying to stereotype or make assumptions, but I just want to point this out and ask why.
Ok now, I've been noticing a lot of young girls that choose to be with guys much older than them, rather than guys in the same age, or at least close to it. I've seen a lot of 13 and 14 year old girls with boyfriends at 16-17 years old, even a couple that are 18 years old. I just want to know exactly why they choose to be with these older men, instead of guys closer to their own age. I'm pretty sure that if you look around for guys your own age, you'll find a lot more good ones than you think. I'm starting to be really concerned, mainly for some girls that are my really close friends, and are around my age, if not younger, but they have chosen to have a boyfriend maybe 4 or 5 years older than them.
So ladies, I ask you this. Why is it that the majority of you choose to have boyfriends much older than you? I'm just looking for a good reason why this is happening.
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♥иασмι-נєωєℓ♥ (Saturday, 29 November 2008 at 21:44)
Devon... Does this bother you that much?... I mean.. our age is.. like.. that different.. is that why we broke up?... ouch..
Christina McIntyre (Sunday, 6 April 2008 at 12:24)
I'm 15 turing 16 in three months and my bf is 17 turing 18 in 5 months.
We've been together for almost 3 months.The whole story is long and complicated but basically his X girlfriend(which I "stole him from[he didn't actually love her or anything]) turns 19 in a few days.There relationship was all sex and our isen't.All tho i did make a mistake and start havings ex with him wayy too early.He still listens if I say no.He asks why but still He unerstands.I am more mature for my age sometimes.Hes too immature for his age sometime but it works out in the end sorta.
Age really only matters to me in surtain situations.Being 13 and dating someone thats like 19 is to big of an age gap for me at that age.I think younger kids should be with people closer to there own age because they need to grow and such.The entire time your in school your basically trying to figure out who you are.Dating someone htat alreayd knows who they are and what there gonna do with there life does put presure on you.Sometimes its not a good thing others it is.
People need to learn what right for them in the future not at the moment.
charlotte (Sunday, 6 April 2008 at 08:18)
Well personally, I'm 13 and my bf is 16, but I'm not with him for that, I just happend to be attracted to him and he has great values. I guess older guys can be more caring, most guys my age are assholes who are throwing their lives away for the price of pot.
Kassi Gallant (Saturday, 5 April 2008 at 20:19)
Girls totally mature faster than guys and want guys who arnt total imature idiots.
im 16 and my boyfriend is going on 21 and i couldnt be happier.
If I wanted to put up with somone with the brain capacity of a 12 year old id go see my brother.
They have a usless sex age so that little girls have kids but i mean if you wanna date somone older than go for it its not a big deal if you ask me
nicole oxnikksxo (Saturday, 5 April 2008 at 18:25)
okay!!all of this shit is probly true!!i like older guys 2 because they are more mature and responsable and like whatever !!
lisa (Saturday, 5 April 2008 at 17:54)
thats so true! like my friend wuz 12 and she was dating like a 19 year old! i hav no idea! maybe they think they're cool if they do that! its gay.. those guys are pigs if they wanna date a gurl that much yunger than him... he prob just thinks its gunna be easy for him to get something cuz the gurl is so happy that someone way older than her wants to date her..
Julie Vermette (Saturday, 5 April 2008 at 17:43)
aha gezz, you guys are all so, mature about this
older guy younger girl thing, i say...age shouldnt matter
well unless hes like 30 and ur liek 17 or something
love conquers all : ) or maybe im just dalusional
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